Words: Mim Hook & Toddlers of Gippsland
Images: Toddlers of Gippsland
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SupportCome and hang out closer to our planet. Take a glimpse of what it’s like to be two or three years old again. When meanings around the way things are are mysterious, and understanding what’s ‘correct’ and ‘orderly’ is as obscure as anything else. —
“Hey Dotti, let’s take some photos?!” “NOT YET!” Toddler-aged voices are underrepresented in popular culture today and, now, I understand why. They are foot-stamping rebels without a cause at the best of times. Small tyrants who don’t ever like being told what to do. Suspicious of everything… “YUCK!” (the standard first response to any food offered). And effortlessly belligerent… “NOT YET!” (Dotti’s shouted response to any question — even to patient, well-intended questions, such as ‘What should we do today?’). Two- and three-year-olds are also achingly sweet. “I love you Mummy,” comes at me with a snotty, spitty face plant to my cheek. And they’re funny, “Look I’m a caterpillar in a rocket ship!” Toddlers are whole people, just in little bodies. They need lots of help with learning the ropes but they can teach us a thing too. Give us lessons on confidence, not caring what others think, being blissfully lost in the moment, laughter, curiosity, being strong-minded, being assertive problem solvers and taking on the world one foot stamp at a time. This ad hoc adhocacy of toddler photography captures a perfectly normal view of the world that we just grew up out of. To re-enter this unique perspective at any time, you must now stand on your head, sit under a table, lay in the grass or jump on the bed. And when anyone asks you to do something you’re not ready to do, look them squarely in the eye and shout “NOT YET!!!”.









